It’s
a little long, but please give it a read! And if you really have some time to
kill, read the comments, which are just as informative as the article. This weeks post is a response/ reflection of the article above. Disclaimer:
I do not agree with all of what he says (I especially disagree with #5)
This is a great article that I think many Peace Corps
Volunteers and expats can sympathize with. The author is reacting to his
introspective assessment of his motherland, where he discovers that his rose
colored glasses of patriotism and “We’re number 1!” mentality were tainted by
the inundation of our own self-loving, fear mongering media. He realizes that
we have become narrow-minded because we are so isolated from outside viewpoints
(media, language, ideas). He
states “…we don’t really get perspective on
what’s close to us until we spend time away from it.”
To me, this is the real meaning of the Peace Corp’s Goal #3: To share with your fellow Americans what you have seen and learned about the world outside of the 50 states; to bring back AND SHARE your changed perspective. Sharing the food, dance, music and photos from vacation hot spots are great, but any tourist can do that.
To me, this is the real meaning of the Peace Corp’s Goal #3: To share with your fellow Americans what you have seen and learned about the world outside of the 50 states; to bring back AND SHARE your changed perspective. Sharing the food, dance, music and photos from vacation hot spots are great, but any tourist can do that.
From my one-week back home last August, I was able to
glimpse the oncoming frustration of reverse-culture shock. I’m not talking
about strangers not staring at you anymore (wait, you don’t want to take a
photo with me?), or old women not giving you a bag full of bananas or avocado
just because you visited their house. I’m talking about how tough it is to get people to understand your new world view, because they haven't had the chance to step outside of the bubble themselves. Sometimes you just want to shake someone saying WHY DONT YOU APPRECIATE DRINKING FOUNTAINS AND TOILET SEATS LIKE I DO! Haha, well those examples aren't exactly my point, but they dance around the topic.
Jamie was a GREAT listener! |
I don’t pretend to be a very articulate writer, but
luckily, I found other people who are! I was really impressed by the caliber of
comments that this article provoked. Here are a few comments that express some
of my issues with his opinions:
Recovering Hipster writes
“When you are a foreigner, people are either more forgiving
of your “weirdness” because they expect it, or they’re just not thinking about
how you conform to norms.
My guess is that this guy experienced the enhanced
niceness that everyone expresses to foreigners – especially toward Americans,
who have been saturating them with media and are therefore more fascinating
than other foreigners – and perceived it as a sign of their culture.
Whenever I’ve traveled abroad, I’ve noticed that I get
very, very comfortable with being a foreigner for that very reason I mentioned
above: people are more forgiving and there’s a general level of awkwardness
that’s to be expected, which has an overall dulling effect on any negative
social experience.
It’s very easy to get addicted to that position of being
a foreigner, and it’s easy to mistake that addiction for you fitting in better
in a different culture.
There’s also the fact that other people often *do* look
up to Americans, so they’re going to be at the very least interested in asking
you questions, if not super friendly. To assume that others are nicer to you
just because they’re nicer cultures is to get things a bit wrong.
If I was Peruvian, would they give me the time of day? |
When I was in Brazil, everyone was pretty interested in
talking to me. At first, I thought it was because I was special. Then, I
thought it was because I was foreign. Then, I realized that it was because I
was American. They had plenty of news stories and plenty of pop culture that
they wanted to talk to me about. The same wouldn’t have been the case if I’d
been an Uruguayan.
In the end, though, I came to recognize that their
culture wasn’t inherently “nicer” or “more genuine” than mine.
In addition to all that, being a “professional traveler”
does not put a person in touch with a culture as much as they’d think. You come
to recognize how little you actually “get” a place when you go from being a
traveler in a place to being a local who can’t necessarily afford to pack up
and go on to the next place. Most places feel like a pair of open arms when
arrive as a traveler. This does not signify a more open culture as much as it
signifies the fact that you’re a traveling consumer.”
A great wake up call to the author comes from Tricia, who
wrote
“…I started reading this article without
looking at even the author’s name. Immediately I knew it was written by a
straight white male. There’s this thing called “privilege” that some people
have that makes them wholly unable to see something from a marginalized
perspective. It is quite upsetting.
I have lived abroad as well, though not as extensively as the author. I have never been to Asia or Africa, though I’ve spent a lot of time in Latin America and Europe. I have been sexually assaulted much more frequently (despite more precautions taken) while abroad than in the States. Being a male has a lot to do with your presumed levels of safety while you’re out, not to mention comfort.
I have lived abroad as well, though not as extensively as the author. I have never been to Asia or Africa, though I’ve spent a lot of time in Latin America and Europe. I have been sexually assaulted much more frequently (despite more precautions taken) while abroad than in the States. Being a male has a lot to do with your presumed levels of safety while you’re out, not to mention comfort.
As guys, we don't have to worry about as many things and get to enjoy it all |
My male roommates when I lived in Nicaragua had all sorts of fun
adventures with meeting strangers, staying out late, etc. I could not have a few
drinks at a club without someone trying RELENTLESSLY to take me home. I was
kissed, felt up, you name it, just for having the audacity to go to a club
without a man. This has happened to me in countries in Europe, Latin America,
and even here at home, but not nearly as frequently…”
Take some time to read some of the resulting discussions
posted on the article, they really make you think.
Another comment also made me curious:
“I would love to see similar articles by
folks from other countries that emigrated outside their native lands, about
their own countries. In my interactions with immigrants here in the USA, I hear
many amusing observations about their own nations. It’s a sign of humility when
you can recognize your own faults, admit that they’re silly and laugh about
them [when they don't cause significant harm]. And if there’s one thing the
global community of mankind can use, it’s less national pride, and more
humility.”
So friends, let me hear your stories! I am
really interested to hear if you have ever had a chance to look at our nation (or any other for that matter) after you have seen the way other places are run. (Please refrain from personal
attacks)
God Bless the United States of America